Life can have painful moments. It’s okay to be hurt. It’s okay to mourn and cry and find others who have been through the same thing and seek comfort from each other.
The problem is when we stay there.
It is a comforting place to be. You don’t have to do anything, just talk about how you were victimized or how unfortunate your life situation is, and all those around you are sympathetic.
You may stay there if you wish, but do not expect others around you to stay as well. Moving forward can be tough. You might feel like you are all alone again, but you are not. Your Angels always walk beside you, and when you “catch up” to others who chose to move forward, you will find that they never left you to begin with. It was you who stopped.
Don’t be embarrassed if this happens. It happens to everyone and real friends will welcome you back with open arms.
When your healing is complete, take those brave steps forward and go have the amazing life of your dreams.
Your Angels are ready when you are.