Everyone coming into your life has a backstory that you don’t know about. A child who is mistreated or bullied at school may come home with a surly, uncooperative attitude. A man whose mother was mean to him might seek out relationships with women who treat him badly and shun the one who is kind, thinking she is not a loving person.
In order to deeply forgive someone, you don’t need to allow them back into your life. Just have a little more compassion for one who has had a different life experience.
If you had a very sore arm and a friend came up and playfully poked you in the most painful part, you might hit them, scream at them or call them an unkind name. To them, you are the bad one, to you, they are.
It’s all a matter of perspective.
Your Angels can open your eyes to seeing a situation in a new light. Then you can take the steps you need to take in order to heal.