Spiritual growth may mean choosing not to use certain words or engage in certain activities. The choices you make are for you, and not those around you.
This does not mean allowing another to physically or emotionally harm you or another.
Be loving enough to allow others to be themselves. The Angels and the Divine will not interfere with the free will of anyone.
Souls come to Earth to express themselves freely and fully. The Angels do not judge us for the language we use, the food we eat or the clothes we wear.
If you want to behave in a more “Angelic” way, you must do the same.