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Mental Illness, a Mother's Love, and Reiki

I had gotten my level one Reiki attunement a year prior but hadn’t done a lot with it.  I wasn’t even sure I believed in it!  Here I was, sitting home every day, stress and trauma pumping through me like our blood does, what did I have to lose?!  The second step was practicing Reiki daily. 

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The Empath’s Addiction to the Cycle of Violence

Does your ego need a challenge? I felt when I was in a toxic situation, I could help, change, or save someone. I would feel a sense of failure when my challenge failed! Do you value your worth based on other's behavior? 

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Projection: the Art of Avoiding Your Own Healing

Healing is a complicated process. It is ongoing and bumpy ride. One day you are flying high and the next, you are feeling like a failure and beating yourself up for your mistakes. The biggest mistake you can actually make is to try to run away from your healing. After a challenging healing crisis, you breathe a sigh of relief and say, “Thank goodness that’s over with!” You pat yourself on the back for your hard work and feel like you just got out of the spiritual shower. Your energy is squeaky clean from head to toe. You can’t imagine how you could have been so different. You wish everyone would be as healed as you are, but alas, they...

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Ending the Blame Game

Life on Earth is about learning. Sometimes, in the best of situations, things go wrong. People make mistakes, unforeseen circumstances occur or communications break down and things must be cleaned up, fixed or done over. Looking for blame, rarely brings a positive result. Instead, look for ways to change, educate or get creative. Then you […]

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