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Are You Part of the Problem?

When two people argue, it is easy to see what the other person did wrong. It is much harder to look within and see the part you played in the situation. It is also much more helpful. You can choose how much you will allow the behavior of others to affect you, but you can't change their behavior. You can, however, change your behavior. Ask yourself, "What did I do that was not loving, kind or helpful?" However small the behavior change you make, it is powerful. One tiny tweak to your actions and attitude will shift your energy much more than all of the observation of the other person's misbehavior. Owning your part of the problem shows integrity, courage...

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It’s Not Personal, It’s Just Not YOUR Reality

We all live in a very personal version of a larger, shared reality. Because of that, what seems obvious to you might escape the attention of another. Do not rush, to judge and label the person. There are things about you that mystify others, as well. Would you want to be judged as mean when […]

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