I’d like to provide you with a little exercise that can help you cut ties between you and the other person. Remember, this can be someone you have loved, a past relationship, but you keep thinking about another person and you need to just get them out of your life.
Due to the energies that have been stirred up with COVID-19 our finances and our relationships have been challenged greatly. The next five weeks will invite many aspects of our personal relationships, especially romantic, under the microscope for review.
When people ask for informational reading for spiritual growth and healing, among the top ten books we recommend is: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. While most spiritual reading is centered on the self, this book helps us to cut through the dramas that have hurt us in the past and to create better, more positive relationships. The first of the Four Agreements is: Be Impeccable With Your Word.Our words are important. They not only give information, but they tell others who we are.
Most of us learn from a young age that there two sides to everything. We have yes and no, good and bad and light and dark. We see the “yes, good and light,” as the states we desire to achieve and the “no, bad and dark” as that which we should strive to avoid. As children, we live for the “good girl/boy” moments, the good grades and the things that make us smile: candy, cartoons and summer vacations. We avoid the green vegetables, books and the discipline of the learning environment. While the lighter things in life are certainly blessings, it is our darkness that enables us to grow. The test that we breezed through may quickly fade in our...