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It is not our job to get people onto our side. In a way, it’s actually our job to maintain those friendships because I can tell you right now that many people sitting in fear are also throwing away lifelong relationships fighting over things that terrify them.

Over the past few months we have lived through many obstacles related to COVID-19. I have spent a lot of time observing the planets and constellations while looking for specific signs that indicate a strong turn of the tides.

Let that sink in for a minute - do you really want to keep those patterns? Do you want to keep that programming of “I'm going to place a judgment on you because I see you doing this” and “apparently you're that way, so I'm just going to decide that’s just the way that person is? 

Does your ego need a challenge? I felt when I was in a toxic situation, I could help, change, or save someone. I would feel a sense of failure when my challenge failed! Do you value your worth based on other's behavior? 

When doing acts of service, there should never be an expectation that the kindness will be returned. What's more important is to shift into a mindset filled with gratitude and thoughtfulness.