I’d like to provide you with a little exercise that can help you cut ties between you and the other person. Remember, this can be someone you have loved, a past relationship, but you keep thinking about another person and you need to just get them out of your life.
Due to the energies that have been stirred up with COVID-19 our finances and our relationships have been challenged greatly. The next five weeks will invite many aspects of our personal relationships, especially romantic, under the microscope for review.
When two people argue, it is easy to see what the other person did wrong. It is much harder to look within and see the part you played in the situation. It is also much more helpful. You can choose how much you will allow the behavior of others to affect you, but you can't change their behavior. You can, however, change your behavior. Ask yourself, "What did I do that was not loving, kind or helpful?" However small the behavior change you make, it is powerful. One tiny tweak to your actions and attitude will shift your energy much more than all of the observation of the other person's misbehavior. Owning your part of the problem shows integrity, courage...
When your soul agreed to come to Earth, there was no “fairness” clause in the contract. We are here to learn and we can make great spiritual advances as we deal with “unfairness.” Unfairness is part of life, and not every incident can be resolved to make all things equal. But each incident gives you […]